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about you

If you’ve found me, you’d probably love to be more embodied, more erotically expressed, more desired and desirable, and more connected to yourself and your partners. You’d probably like to  

Do any of these sound like you?

You want to become the kind of emotionally-attuned man that feminine partners trust, love, and want.

Maybe you’ve done lots of self-development work, and you want to fine-tune the nuanced communication and relational skills that will allow your feminine romantic partners and business allies to feel safe in the world and truly shine. You’re here to discover even more ways to elevate the collective consciousness. You want to dismantle the sexual patriarchy and literally impress the pants off women with your genuine respect for empowered feminine energy.     

You want to be a better lover and dive deep into the physical and energetic practices that elevate pleasure. 

You want to repair your relationships to masculine and feminine energy - and explore core energies beyond the gender binary.

You feel too needy and anxious in relationships - OR - you cut and run when things get serious. Deep down you want lasting love, but you know something inside you needs to shift. You’re ready for support with attachment style.

Sex and relationships generally go pretty well for you… but you like independence and autonomy… and you want a relationship that doesn’t make you claustrophobic. You want an intact sense of self in relationships.

As a kid you were teased for liking girls, as a teenager you were shamed for being horny, then as a young man you were made fun of for not having enough game or having too much game, and after that maybe you felt judged because you missed the marriage boat - or your marriage ended in divorce. You know there’s a way to rise above deeply-engrained social shame about sex, love, and partnership.

You’re ready for some focused growth after a big break-up. 

You recently divorced and you want a co-pilot while you wade into the new (online) dating pool.

You’re reckoning with romantic or relational missteps of the past and you want to compassionately course-correct and come to a place of self-forgiveness.

You’re ready to explore new territory and experience deep intimate surrender - or take the reins in bed like never before - or go to a play party - or have a threesome. Let’s make sure you know how to build and maintain a secure relational container within which to explore sexy new possibilities.

Maybe the mind-bending relational territory of Ethical Non-Monogamy is calling your name, and there’s radical relational growth ahead of you.

You’re in a moment of transition (what we used to call a “mid-life crisis”). You’re emerging from the patterns you developed as a young man and stepping into a mature masculine identity. We might call this your “Prince-to-King” moment.

You’re taking on the role of an Elder - an evolved and wise leader in your community, responsible for passing wisdom down to younger generations. You want to occupy your seat of influence with all the integrity and grace your years have afforded you. You want to lead from humility and service.

You want to navigate conflict skillfully - and be able to transform difference into curiosity in every relationship in your life.

You want to show up as a secure, healed, safe leader in your workplace - and earn the trust of your team by embodying your values and maintaining grounded energy.

You know the outdated and opressive patriarchal system of yesteryear isn’t really serving you or anyone else, and you want to be part of a social evolution in which everyone feels seen, respected, and honored.

Wherever you are, I’m here to nurture and support your evolution.

Let’s discover, together, what amazing things will come alive when your erotic self is allowed to thrive, and you’re living from deep and grounded energy.